Sunday, November 29, 2009

Why Did We Have To Burn Our Bra's?

Odd title I know but I've been doing some reading lately and what I tend to focus on is medical-related non-fiction. I picked up a book from the library that was both fascinating and frustrating. "American Women of Medicine" by Russell Roberts is an amazing (and short) compilation of biographies. These women were the pioneers in the medical field when so many women were not only expected to not work at all but certainly not in the male dominated medical field. For example...

Dorthea Lynde Dix(1802-1887) Passionate about the living conditions for and the treatment of the mentally ill Dix wrote a Memorial to the Legislature of Massachusetts in 1843. The memorial was so powerful the legislature passed a bill ordering the state hospital to provide better accomodations. In New Jersey her efforts brought about an entire state hospital devoted to the care of the mentally ill. Ultimately she was responsible for founding institutions or improving conditions in 20 states as well as Canada.

Elizabeth Blackwell(1821-1910) Blackwell became the first modern woman doctor. She applied to every medical school in NY and Philadelphia only to be turned down by every single one. In October 1897, after applying to and being denied acceptance into 29 schools she was accepted into Geneva College in upstate NY. In 1857 she founded the NY Infirmary for Indigent Women & Children and became the first woman listed in the British Medical Registry.

Clara Barton(1821-1912) Barton started possibly the first free public school in Bordentown, NJ and after just one year had 600 students. After the Civil War errupted 1861 she learned of the soliders lack of provisions she set out to provide them necessities. Barton volunteered as a nurse and stepped out onto the battlefield to tend to the wounded. The directors of the International Red Cross were eager to estabilish a branch in the US and Barton was the perfect candidate for the job. The first branch of the American Red Cross was founded in NY in 1881.

Mary Edwards Walker(1832-1919) Walker graduated from nursing school in 1855 as the only woman in her class. Denied an appointment as a surgeon in the Union army she worked as a volunteer physician and surgeon from 1862 into 1863 plunging into the battlefield. While she never won her appointment in the Union army, President Johnson signed a bill in Nov 1865 that awarded Walker the Congressional Medal of Honor. She was the first woman to receive this prestigious award.

Susie King Taylor(1848-1912) Taylor began her career as a Civil War nurse, at less than 15 years of age, by looking after several men who contracted a form of smallpox. One day she met Clara Barton and was taken along whenever Barton visited local hospitals. Taylor was one of the first African-American nurses in US history. She went on to organize Corps 67, the Women's Relief Auxiliary, to help Union army veterans and their families.

Clara Maass(1876-1901) At just 16 she enrolled in a nursing program. For the next two years she worked tirelessly and by 1898 became the head nurse at a hospital. When scientists identified the mosquito responsible for carrying malaria they sought to find if it carried yellow-fever as well. Maass volunteered when the city of Havana was in the grip of another yellow fever epidemic. It was there she learend about the research and in 1901 signed up for the experiment. Unfortunately it resulted in a severe case and ultimately her death. Because of this experiment scientists determined the carrier of yellow-fever and conquered the disease. In 1952 the former Newark German Hospital was renamed Clara Maass Hospital in her honor.

Gerty Radnitz Cori(1896-1957) Cori enrolled in college in 1914 at age 18 and graduated in 1920. After a two-year stint in Europe she returned to the US to focus on medical research. She focused her reserach on the chemical process of carbohydrate metabolism, ultimately determining the results of sugar and insulin in the blood stream. She went on to study enzymes and in 1939 discovered the enzyme responsible for converting glycogen to glucose. In 1947 Cori became the first woman to earn a Nobel Prize for Physiology or Medicine.

Antonia Coello Novello(1944- ) Novello earned a full scholarship to college where she studied biology. She graduated in 1965 and that same year went on to medical school. During her internship she was named Intern of the Year, the first time a woman had ever received the award from the pediatric department. She went on to get her masters in 1982 and became the director of the National Institute of Child Health & Human Development. In 1990 she was sworn in as the US surgeon general as the first Hispanic and first female to hold that high office. After serving her term she was then appointed to serve as NY State Health Commissioner in 1999 where she is still in charge today.

I know this was a long post and if you read it all I am both surprised and thankful. I am not a feminist by any means and I have always known women are both capable of great things and have accomplished great things. What I didn't know before was how many women in the 1800's and early 1900's did so much and yet women were still fighting for equality and, burning bras, in the 50's, 60's, 70's... And some even still today fight for equality. I don't understand what it is about the gender gap. Do some truly believe we are still the 'weaker' sex? If so how can that be after everything women have accomplished?

It is inspiring to look so far back and see what these women achieved in the face of extreme opposition. It does make me wonder why we now seem to give up so easily when faced with a hurdle. If our ancestors gave up as easily what would we, as a collective nation, missed out on? If we persevere as they did, what achievements might we pass on to the next generation?

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

This Crazy Thing Called Life

Jon is officially into his second month at the KCPD Academy! There were (are) plenty of adjustments to be made but we are settling into a routine. He's done extremely well on his tests and is making it through the crazy intense physical training they're doing. Unfortunately for me they're told to practice what they learn in defensive tactics so I've found myself in handcuffs a few times as he practices how to take down a bad guy. Those things are amazingly uncomfortable! haha

Meanwhile I have started my new job! God blessed me with a position at a hospital, Truman Medical Center, which is exactly what I was hoping for. I'm working in the emergency department of the number one trauma hospital in the city! I register the patients when they come into the ER whether from the waiting room or when they've been taken back to a bed. I didn't realize registration would entail so much immediate contact with the patients but it does and that's wonderful. Later I will learn how to admit and discharge patients and provide financial counseling as well. Truman is the kind of hospital, especially the ER, that if you have it on your resume for any length of time it is looked upon *very* well. Should I apply for a position at another hospital it will help immensely! For now though I am happy at Truman. I see all walks of life really as most of the patients are insured by medicaid/medicare. There is definitely something different every day and often busy so my 12 hr shifts go by relatively fast.

This fall has brought many changes in our lives but unlike the beginning of this year's changes the recent ones have been good. I'm so grateful that even in the midst of our own human doubt God remained faithful to us and our dreams.

Friday, September 18, 2009

It's a long road...and then it turns.

Well, here we are. I (Jon) start with the KCPD on Monday, I've left what was the longest tenured job I've ever had (Men's Wearhouse), and left it all in God's control. I still have to do a lot of work; but I think I've prepared as well as I can. Sure, I could've done a lot more running than I did, but I guess we'll see how much that comes back to bite me in the butt. I'm not exactly sure how I'm going to pay my first month's insurance premiums- they make us pay a month in advance- so that will definitely be interesting. Had to buy my beautiful, fashionable, black boots...talk about a change. I go from picking my shirt, tie, and suit every day to a choice of blue, blue, or hey, if I'm lucky...blue! I guess being at the apex of fashion isn't a big concern when you're busting baddies or saving babies. From all reports, the academy's going to be a para-military setting, so I'd better get used to getting yelled at from time to time. My biggest problem will be not laughing while some large man is screaming at the guy next to me. I'd rather laugh than cry, I guess.
So, why? Why turn away what was basically a cake job that paid ok for something that is infinitely more challenging, but doesn't pay that much better? Simple, really. I can come home after a long day, be exhausted, and know that my energy was actually spent on something worthwhile. I get to know that a child might just have a better future because I helped put the drug dealer next door behind bars. But there's always another one. Always another drunk driver, always another shooter, always another druggie trying to make his living off the sorrow and death of other people. That's why we're out there. Because for every scumbag, there are 50 people busting their butts to provide for their children. There are students in colleges all over the country who are quite literally defenseless against any maniac who may want to come onto their "gun free" campus and start shooting. I can't protect them from my chair. I'd like to have a utopian worldview- to hold the belief that people are good, that the world is right, that we will all eventually be communists with no greed, no hunger, and no possessions- but that is simply not a realistic pattern of thought. Not so long as the Bible is accurate...which means forever. As long as people are born into sin, and have that predisposition, there will always be heinous, evil acts done to people who don't deserve them.
I was too comfortable to join the military- too happy with living in my house, in my borders, in my little bubble. This is my attempt to make up for that- to do what I believe is every man's responsibility, to protect and provide for those he loves. That doesn't mean pinning on a badge, or becoming a marine, or putting on a cape and mask and jumping off rooftops- at least, that's not what it means for everyone. It means making sure that you are doing your best to ensure that those around you have every opportunity they deserve to live, and to be free. My dad said often, "The only thing society owes you is an opportunity." So I have finally begun to realize mine.
In other news, Jess will begin her new job at Truman Med center on October...12th, I think. She'll be admitting patients into the ER...yay! 3 12-hour shifts will be different, but I'm sure the off days will be nice as well. While I'm going from 7-4 5 days a week, she'll have time to take care of the dog, or whatever else needs to be done, and I'll have plenty of time to study...while we still get to actually see each other. Life's beginning to turn; it's taken awhile, but with God's grace, we held on. Now we need to slap ourselves for doubting as much as we did.

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Omaha 2009



We recently took a trip to Omaha as a quick get-away before Jon starts the police academy. Jon grew up in Omaha ages 6-12 but hasn't been back since they moved to KC so it was a big blast from the past weekend for him! I couldn't believe it but he managed to find his old house, his friend's houses, his school... I'm not sure I would have been able to do all that after 13 years. Oh his memory...

First we decided to stay somewhere a little more fun than a hotel so I found what is apparently the only Bed & Breakfast in all of Omaha haha But the Cornerstone Mansion was definitely a great choice. It was beautiful and we would recommend it!









We got in on Sunday evening so we didn't do much until Monday. That's when we hit the Omaha Zoo and later a minor league game, the Omaha Royals! More on the game later. The Zoo was definitely a blast and we got some great pics ~

This one was a beautiful waterfall in one of the exotic exhibits they had~




Gotta love the penguins! We spent quite a bit of time there watching them~There were some baby penguins who were no doubt showing off and hilarious to watch!


Apparently this is a kilpspringer (whatever that is)~I was just entertained at getting a pic of him with his mouthful hehe


We got most of our entertainment out of the gorillas, monkey's and this particular orangutan. Meet Fu Man Chu~He was obtained by the Zoo in the 60's and they soon found out he has the ability to create tools...and use them! He got wire from a light fixture and figured out how to unlock the pad lock and let him and his friends out! He also figured out how to hide it within his mouth so no one could find it. After several mornings of lose animals and finger pointing they figured out his trick. He was simply the biggest of that species we'd ever seen...Simply amazing.




We also got a couple of shots of the gorillas. The one by the gate was banging on it quite a bit either a) showing dominance or b) wanting inside although at that point no one was going to open that gate! haha




And yes, this a gorilla pouting. No joke - funnies thing ever


After the Zoo we had lunch, drove around town a bit and headed back to rest up for the game. We got to the game super early because my dear husband is way to used to going to the major league games where there's actual traffic... But for $10 a piece we got seats 2 rows back from the field, just to the right of home plate ~ very cool!


While we were passing the time before the game began a girl came over and asked if we would like to be part of an on-field game between innings. Well we said yes before we knew what we were agreeing to (never a good idea) but even after she told us Jon thought it was the coolest thing ever. I was nervous that I would make a fool of myself in front of... okay so a couple hundred people who I'll never see again... But that's not the point! ;o) I knew I was being a pansy so I sucked it up - Well as you can see in the pictures below, it was quite the experience. The game was (and we were competing against another couple on the other side of the field) to basically pop balloons between us-sounds easy enough but...we had to do it *their* way. So I was standing about 15 feet from him, took a balloon and ran towards him. We pretty much bear hugged/chest bumped to pop it. While I ran back to get another one he was setting up a chair so when I ran back towards him I gave him the balloon and sat on it on his lap to pop it... The last one was the one I chickened out on but for good reason! I grab another balloon but this time he's lying on the ground. They said basically body slam him but I was sure I was going to crush him LOL He kept telling me not to worry about hurting him but apparently I love him too much for that because just as I got to him I chickened out and the picture tells it all. I kinda fell forward...kinda on him...kinda not LOL That balloon was of course a little harder to pop then but we got the job done. Fortunately everyone in the stadium agreed we won (it was really close) so... yay!







Tuesday we checked out of the B&B and checked out a couple of museums before heading home. First was the Durham Museum which was a renovated Union Station with all sorts of exhibits from 'back in the day' ~ We love this historical stuff although I admit I get a bit picture happy haha Later we went to the Strategic Air Command museum. Being an Air Force brat it's always cool to see the planes and Jon (fitting enough) has always had a fascination with them. Naturally I got more pics there as well. We checked out one more local eatery for lunch and made our way back home.

Instruments of torture? No...medical tools! Eek...



Means of communication... I'm thinking people said less back then haha





They had statues like these all around the lobby and they were motion sensored which was weird but they'd start talking like they were going through it all over again. Saying goodbye and whatnot.










I'd often heard Omaha is a great vacation spot and I always thought they were crazy but there is plenty to do tourist-wise to fill a couple days and the Cornerstone Mansion is a great place to come back to~I have a feeling we'll be back :o)

p.s. Way too many pics to post here so check out my Facebook for the rest of our trip!

Monday, August 17, 2009

KCPD Academy



For those of you who don't know we've been in the process of getting Jon into the police academy. The whole thing started in April '08 so obviously it's been a loooong road. After budget cuts and the threat of no academy for the foreseeable future the department got the thumbs up to put together a class. Jon got the call a couple of months ago that he was IN the academy the next class they had but they didn't know when that would be. Just that knowledge alone was huge but then it almost made it worse waiting to see when the academy would start! Well this morning he got the call that the academy will begin September 21st!! Our lives with officially and forever change so there is much anticipation! There is one last step and that's getting a physical which he'll go in this week to do. So pray for the last few steps of this journey and praise God for the date being set!!

Monday, July 20, 2009

Lake, Friends and SeaDoos

Yes it's been a long time since I posted but honestly we haven't done much post-worthy haha However this weekend we finally got out and had some fun w/ some friends. One of our few couple friends who don't have kids :-p

Jon's parents have a boat up at Smithville lake. It's a sizeable boat with all sorts of amenities but yesterday we were more interested in the entertainment factor. Brandon, Kelly, Jon & I headed up after church, had lunch at the marina and hit the water. We were able to borrow a jet ski/seadoo thingy from a friend which was amazing. Jon drove the boat out while Brandon followed behind on the jet ski. We found a place in the cove to anchor down and spent the next couple hours taking turns on the jet ski and kicking back with cold beverages and enjoying the 80 degree weather - it was a beautiful day, perfect to be on the water! We didn't leave till around 6 and it's amazing how fast time goes when you're having fun with friends! But it's also amazing how tiring all that fun can be haha Jon and I got home, ordered some pizza and crashed on the couch but that part was fun too. Just to sit around and relax together. It's rare to spend a full day together and to spend it with good friends was even better! So thanks to his parents for letting us borrow the boat, Phil the-car-guy for the jet ski and Brandon & Kelly for coming along to make the day a party :o)

Pics of the day ~




Sunday, July 5, 2009

4th of July

Jon was set to work on the 4th (boo) but got off a couple hours early (yay!) so we headed up to the lake in Smithville where his parents have a boat. We got there with Layla in tow and as soon as we got out of the car it started raining... It wasn't too terribly bad so we kept going. Before we made it out of the parking lot it was raining *hard*! So we're holding a beach towel over our heads while being drug by our 2 year old lab who is apparently oblivious to the downpour. We make it the loooong way to the dock and take cover under an overhang. Fortunately his parents and grandparents had saved a table at the dock restaurant under cover! Our manic puppy was SO excited with all those people and took her a good 30-45 minutes to calm down at all *sigh* After dinner we went over to the boat and hung out. It had stopped raining at least but was much cooler than anyone expected it to be! Ummm, MO in July?! Anyway, his parents made some ice cream, we popped open some wine (random, yes) and later made our way out to the lake to watch the pros shoot some fireworks! All in all it was a nice night (minus the rain) and it was definitely a plus to have Jon off work early to enjoy the day a bit more.

Tonight is the 4-year-anniversary of our engagement, craziness! Just 2 days away from our 3-year-wedding anniversary, also crazy. As Jon says, the days are slow but the years are fast! So true. So very true.

Monday, June 1, 2009

Classes & Such

We are officially both starting classes today! Jon is taking an online course, Intro to Criminal Justice, which should be interesting at least. I'm taking my LAST pre-req, YAY! Praying the prof is nice and the teaching style accommodates my learning style! If nothing else at least for now I'm able to hit up the tutors during the day if I have problems grasping certain things. There's a LOT to consume in 8 weeks!

God-willing I'll be starting a full-time program in July but there is a lot that has to happen between now and then. God brought me through to getting into this class I so desperately need so I have faith He will either get me in that program or open another door that I can't see right now. Meanwhile, I'm working my Arbonne business and am in qualification for District Manager which is exciting! If I can't get an outside job if I can bring $ in with this it would be fabulous!

I hope everyone has a wonderful summer!

Monday, May 18, 2009

Vacation to CO, 2009

We got to go back to CO to see my family and a few friends for a few short days last week. We drove out and got there in time to see my parents for a late lunch then headed to the hotel. We laid pretty low that first night which was fun. The next day we hit the outlet stores in Castle Rock (there was a pair of shoes Jon could not find in his size in all of Colorado Springs lol). Yay Castle Rock had the shoes! We came back to the Springs and checked out the Ghost Town Mueseum then met my parents for dinner.


Dad and Jon went to Bible study and I got some mom and me time :o)

The next day was a full day - We headed up to Estes Park (this is turning into a tradition of sorts).



We had lunch, stopped at a store that had nothing but Nebraska Husker wear (Jon's a big fan) and replaced Jon's baseball hat and got me a fleece in support of 'his' team haha We had lunch and got some pies to take to a dinner that night. From Estes we headed back through the Springs to Pueblo to have dinner with my god-sister and her family. We hadn't been down to their house yet and with 4 kids it's hard for them to meet us in the Springs in the middle of the week. It was so great to see their home and hangout with the kiddos! The following day I got to see 2 of my best friends and their baby boys while Dad and Jon went to the shooting range and to see 'Wolverine' (yay male bonding!). Tara and I decided to culture her baby boy Ian (ok so he's 1-year-old now but still a baby right?) We headed to the Pioneer Museum and got some cute pics.

We capped off that night with a dinner out at Salt Grass with my parents which was really nice. I don't think we were able to spend that much time with my parents last year and we got some nice quality time in which was great.

We ended the week hanging out with my nephews and my brother and sister-in-law. Then it was time to pack up and drive straight through Kansas home.




We got home in time for Jon to have enough daylight to mow the lawn haha I went and picked up Layla from our pastor's house, ordered some pizza and we watched a movie - Nice end to a short vacation!

It's always hard to go back to CO because there is just never enough time to see everyone I want to see - I hope I can go back soon, even just for a couple of days, and see some more friends but that remains to be seen. Just know that if you're reading this and I didn't see you it's not because you weren't on my mind - I just couldn't get to everyone and see my family too! :0)